Relationships?

Any discussion not related to furry goes in here. Politics, religion, current affairs...this is the place for it.

Are you in a relationship right now?

Yes, and the other is a furry too.
32
28%
Yes, but the other isn't a furry.
15
13%
Maybe. I'm not sure. (o.?)
5
4%
No, but I'd like to find someone.
48
42%
No, and I'm not planning on it anytime soon.
15
13%
 
Total votes: 115
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Post by Asbjorn-phoenix »

Nearly 3 months since my last break up and still not changed my mind, the single life it shall be, free to yiff when, where and who I want. I was irreparably damaged this last round. Never again shall I allow my heart to be tortured thus.
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by jacojerb »

Just checked the poll, its 43% single and looking... This number is way too high, we needs more love in this fandom, hehe. So let it be changed! Let there be love!
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Adagio »

Contrast wrote:
Adagio wrote::3 Definately in a relationship! And shes the cutest furry I've ever met! <3
You can't just drop a gossip bomb like that amongst your fellow furs and not elaborate!
Who is she? Anybody we know? How did you meet? Details! I demand details! :P

And why not?? :P

How did we meet:
We met a little after te 21 of January after her Birthday, we chatted on PM's for a while, then turned over to.whatsapp.

Anybody we might know:
I'm pretty shure you know her :P

Who is she:
Other than my whole? Totem Coyote! :)
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Asbjorn-phoenix »

Adagio wrote:
Contrast wrote:
Adagio wrote::3 Definately in a relationship! And shes the cutest furry I've ever met! <3
You can't just drop a gossip bomb like that amongst your fellow furs and not elaborate!
Who is she? Anybody we know? How did you meet? Details! I demand details! :P

And why not?? :P

How did we meet:
We met a little after te 21 of January after her Birthday, we chatted on PM's for a while, then turned over to.whatsapp.

Anybody we might know:
I'm pretty shure you know her :P

Who is she:
Other than my whole? Totem Coyote! :)
Awww nice. You just made me smile. Good luck to the two of you.
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Re: Relationships?

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Adagio wrote:
Contrast wrote:
Adagio wrote::3 Definately in a relationship! And shes the cutest furry I've ever met! <3


Who is she:
Other than my whole? Totem Coyote! :)
Congratulations! I wish you both the best of luck. Oh, and you'd better brush up on your general knowledge of horses. Just saying. :D
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Post by Adagio »

Thanx!

Hehe! There's a stable nearby... I might brush up on my general horse knowledge... Lets see... um... that's a hoof.........
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Post by Raven Song »

so cute!!!! congrats guys!!!

anyway I am kind of sort of in a relationship that i shouldnt be in... it's um... complicated to explain.... basically it's my manager... and we are only an item after 6 at night till about 6 in the morning, and sundays... i know thats weird, but it's kind of worth it....
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Post by jacojerb »

Congrats and good luck, Punk. I bet you'll need it
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Post by Wolfie-DMX »

Ek soek nie n verhouding nie, ek loop en vry in die bondel :P LOL

Nope, no relationships for me. I am with Asbjorn-Phoenix here, I like to live my Single, yet free to yiff lifestyle, no matter if this society disapproves of it!
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Flaxney »

single
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#161

Post by Flaxney »

Well I think that my status will change soon :3
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Post by jacojerb »

C'mon Flaxney, you cant just leave us with that...
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Re: Relationships?

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*hands you a red herring* yes, yes I can
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Post by Adagio »

365 days single today...
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Sev »

Adagio wrote:365 days single today...
Well, that sucks...
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Gothic Collie »

7 years single :/
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Leeward »

Wow, over 60% single...

Well for me it'll be 4 years since I met my mate in about a month and a half.
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#168

Post by jacojerb »

:O I didn't update this yet?

I'm Dating Dasc-Crescent :D A lot of you probably already know... But meh. I'm saying it here!
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Re: Relationships?

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Post by Dasc-Crescent »

^^
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Post by Franky »

Completely single and loving it... again... Is sad... :cry:
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Boyfriend coming over from Sweden in 7 daaayssss
online relationship time ~6 months atm
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Re: Relationships?

#172

Post by Sev »

Swenden, that's pretty epic. ^_^
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Re: Relationships?

#173

Post by Kenjomik »

Real life relationship*. We just can't be in the same place together as often as we'd want to :P
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Re: Relationships?

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Awww, nice Faanvolla and Kenjomik. I think it's fitting that the Cheetah stays in Africa. :)

*cough* @Montgomery, haven't you got anything to say? >.>'
Hahaha! :lol:
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What, other than the fact that Taka and I are doing really well together, despite the fact that my parents' opinion of the relationship changes on a near daily basis? Which has caused my own behavior to appear entirely arbitrary, which confuses and scares him?

And the fact that I told him that I was contemplating suicide, right before my mother walked in on me to tell me how she and father needed to "let me go", which meant that I could not respond to any of his frantic messages over a period of about 10 min, nearly resulting in him phoning the ambulance?

At least I was able to explain the situation to him, but, honestly, I felt as though I had betrayed him.

I have only one thing to say about all of this: fck Christianity. My mother has openly admitted that had she not been Christian, that she would not have had any issue with me being in a gay relationship.
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Post by Sev »

But no one needs to worry, because, overall, things are fine between us.

He's coming down again in June, for a whole two weeks this time, and neither of us can wait. :D
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Re: Relationships?

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I'm really glad for you Monty, you seem to be managing the situation in a very sane manner. It can't be easy having parents who have no idea how to handle a situation that they don't understand and who are being very clumsy about it. Hopefully you'll be able to set boundaries with them at some point soon, without burning any bridges. The important part is trusting your partner and relying on each other for strength.
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Post by Sev »

Yeah, I love my Taka so much. :D

We're there for each other.
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Post by Ryall »

Really I just meant the, "Taka and I are in a relationship," part; the other stuff is news to me. I am glad to hear she's beginning to come to terms with it, and that you two are going strong. :)
Hahaha! :lol:
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Post by Sev »

Ryall wrote:I am glad to hear she's beginning to come to terms with it.
I'm not so sure about that. :?
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