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Long distance relationships

Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2018 11:40 pm
by Raven Song
Are weird.

I should know.
I'm in one.

In my defence mine is made weirder by the young lady I am dating being:

1) My best friend of 10 years so it feels like we've been dating our whole lives.

2) Straight

Weird yes.
She's gay for me.
Basically one day I'm going marry her and she can have kids cuz ain't no fucking kids coming out this body.

But it's weird because....
She lives in SA still. She will one day join me here.
We WhatsApp each other every day so I don't feel... alone but...
I miss her voice. Rectified by a phone call weekly or when one of us is having a paddy at work.
I miss her smell.
I miss touching her skin...
We haven't slept together (I mean we've shared a bed but that's it... she's new to the whole gay thing and I ain't pushy... we have a millennia of being married to get sex down)
So it's not that that I miss.

But I wonder... if my body craves her physical touch as much as it does now...
How do people who have had sex ever manage in a long distance relationship!!!!

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 9:59 am
by noah-lausberg
Toys?

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 10:24 am
by Raven Song
Lol.
Yes. That is indeed I feel the only one can cope lol

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 11:28 am
by Kievvu
basically...we get driven crazy with lust and memories for a few months or however long, where toys and calls and video chats barely satisfy our cravings. Then one of us goes "Fek it" and jumps on a plane. We reunite and then lock ourselves in a room somewhere and go at it like rabbits for a few days.

That's my experience of it at least...

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 11:40 am
by Rakuen Growlithe
That's why we need to rush work on teleportation and portals.

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 1:32 pm
by noah-lausberg
There's a possibility and probability for everything.

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 2:12 pm
by Raven Song
If I could pay for her ticket shed be here in a heart beat...

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 7:55 pm
by noah-lausberg
Why not help pay a bit of it? I can understand that you have a budget but you could help by putting in to quicken the process.

Just a suggestion.

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:50 pm
by Raven Song
To be fair all I have to do is save 3 months of pounds and I could buy a one way ticket :lol:

It's a bit more complex than that... but yes, I am saving for it.

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2018 10:36 pm
by noah-lausberg
Raven Song wrote: Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:50 pm To be fair all I have to do is save 3 months of pounds and I could buy a one way ticket :lol:

It's a bit more complex than that... but yes, I am saving for it.
Oh okay. Well I hope you reach your goal and that she comes and visits you. ^.^

Re: Long distance relationships

Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2018 3:45 am
by Trace
I know how hard it can be to be separated from someone you care about... I hope that you get to see her in person soon.