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Long distance relationships

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Are weird.

I should know.
I'm in one.

In my defence mine is made weirder by the young lady I am dating being:

1) My best friend of 10 years so it feels like we've been dating our whole lives.

2) Straight

Weird yes.
She's gay for me.
Basically one day I'm going marry her and she can have kids cuz ain't no fucking kids coming out this body.

But it's weird because....
She lives in SA still. She will one day join me here.
We WhatsApp each other every day so I don't feel... alone but...
I miss her voice. Rectified by a phone call weekly or when one of us is having a paddy at work.
I miss her smell.
I miss touching her skin...
We haven't slept together (I mean we've shared a bed but that's it... she's new to the whole gay thing and I ain't pushy... we have a millennia of being married to get sex down)
So it's not that that I miss.

But I wonder... if my body craves her physical touch as much as it does now...
How do people who have had sex ever manage in a long distance relationship!!!!
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Toys?
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Lol.
Yes. That is indeed I feel the only one can cope lol
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basically...we get driven crazy with lust and memories for a few months or however long, where toys and calls and video chats barely satisfy our cravings. Then one of us goes "Fek it" and jumps on a plane. We reunite and then lock ourselves in a room somewhere and go at it like rabbits for a few days.

That's my experience of it at least...
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That's why we need to rush work on teleportation and portals.
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There's a possibility and probability for everything.
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If I could pay for her ticket shed be here in a heart beat...
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Why not help pay a bit of it? I can understand that you have a budget but you could help by putting in to quicken the process.

Just a suggestion.
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To be fair all I have to do is save 3 months of pounds and I could buy a one way ticket :lol:

It's a bit more complex than that... but yes, I am saving for it.
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Raven Song wrote:
Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:50 pm
To be fair all I have to do is save 3 months of pounds and I could buy a one way ticket :lol:

It's a bit more complex than that... but yes, I am saving for it.
Oh okay. Well I hope you reach your goal and that she comes and visits you. ^.^
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I know how hard it can be to be separated from someone you care about... I hope that you get to see her in person soon.
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