It feels like you're missing a couple of things I'm trying to say so I'll quickly put in one last message before Adagio tries to spray me.
My original point was not about unclear references or anything like that. It was about an artist, knowing the design and deliberately trying to change the character design to look like something else.
The objects were not what was being compared. It was the wider framework that the objects were embedded in. The focus was on giving, receiving and the relevant considerations and obligations of the parties involved.
The last part shouldn't make you sad because it says nothing about things being insisted on by the recipient. The questions were framed for the giver and, if it was about personal pride, you shouldn't have had any hesitation answering those questions in the affirmative.
Beyond that, and partly veering off topic but its my last post on the theme, you seem to miss that being thankful for a gift is not always the correct response. Yes, you should be usually thankful for gifts but they can come with all sorts of baggage. As Africans, we see a lot of poverty and charity is a known virtue. "And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity." But charity can actually perpetuate poverty. Donations of used clothes to help the poor in Africa have actually wrecked the clothing production industry in many countries as its not possible to compete with the low prices, this makes starting clothing businesses completely unsustainable and prevents economic development. (
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/ ... ions-kenya and
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/th ... 74c9f10dd6) In such a situation, I think it would be absolutely right not to be grateful for such a gift.
"If all mankind minus one, were of one opinion, and only one person were of the contrary opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person, than he, if he had the power, would be justified in silencing mankind."
~John Stuart Mill~
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~John Milton~